Etiquette, first impressions, and gifts

• If you visit me: when you come in, please place your donation on the table in an unsealed envelope.

• If we meet at your place: please leave the donation somewhere visible.

• If we meet outside: put it in a greeting card or a book of your choice.

• And if you wish to send me the donation electronically, do so right when we meet.

How can you impress a lady like me? I believe that cleanliness is next to godliness, and politeness opens many doors. Gifts are never expected but always appreciated. Here is a wishlist for specific things I want but don’t currently have. If you’d like to surprise me, I’m always happy to receive a gift card for Poshmark or DoorDash.

F.A.Q.

Vaccination status

I am fully vaccinated against COVID, with 4 booster shots.

Face photos

Due to the sensitive nature of the career I’m pursuing in my private life, I can't send you any face photos or allow any photography during our dates. If it helps, I’ve been told quite a lot that I look like Emilia Clarke.

Travel and tours

I’ll announce any upcoming tours in my newsletter and on Bluesky. I always host at 4-5 star hotels. Reach out if you’d like to sponsor a tour to your city! You can also fly me to you.

Outfit requests

If you want to make an outfit request, you are welcome to do so. I might not be able to accommodate it, but it never hurts to ask. And if you’d like an outfit I don’t have, you can always bring it to our date.

Reference requests

If we’ve seen each other within 1 year and are in good standing, I will be happy to be your reference.

Duos

If we’ve met before, feel free to inquire about my current duo partners, as well as the ladies I’ve been admiring from afar while being too shy to approach on my own. Kindly match our rates to the higher of the two.